Why aren't you reaching climax?

Orgasming for men is generally pretty straight forward, but for many women, it’s a whole different ball game. The good news is that the majority of women can orgasm - if they eliminate the factors that bothering their climax. If you're one of the many women who's struggling, we’ve rounded up some surprising reasons you might not be able to go to the finish line.

There's A Drought In The Land

Lubricant makes everyone's hot bits more sensitive to erotic touch, so the philosophy wetter is better generally applies. Using a good lube enhances skin to skin or skin to toy contact, and decreases the amount of friction, giving a smooth glide. All women get wet at different rates and to different degrees, sometimes a little outside help is needed, and that's perfectly ok.

Silicone is hypoallergenic and typically lasts longer, so it is great for shower sex, and safe to use with condoms. Water-based lube is safe to use with condoms and toys. It will not stain your sheets, and makes for easy cleanup.

You Aren't Tensing Your Muscles

Ladies who have difficulty landing the big "O" are often told to "try to relax," but sometimes the opposite is true.

Muscle tension is essential for an orgasm. The majority of women incorporate leg, abdominal, and butt tension when arousal is building, and flexing these muscles increases sensitivity and lubrication, which are building blocks to a woman's orgasm. By contracting your lower pelvic muscles (AKA Kegel muscles), you increase blood flow to the walls of your vagina and pelvic floor.

You can elongate and strengthen your pelvic floor muscles with backbends, squats, and stretches or work them out with Kegel Balls. They come in a variety of options, and many include additional fun features like vibrations, various textures or materials, and even remote controls to add fun and diversity to your workout. Check out IFONNX offe for choosing the perfect Kegel exerciser.

There's A Need For More Gentle Approach

It's a common misconception that harder and faster equals better. But... orgasms are directly connected to a women's nervous system and we are wired differently. A softer approach allows a gentle buildup that lends itself to mind-blowing results. Since your clit is so sensitive to physical touch it's fairly common for girls to find on-the-spot vibration irritating, numbing, or just too concentrated to bring the pleasure they are seeking.

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Touchless clit stimulators are a great alternative. These little wonders work so well because they are not actually coming into contact with the clitoris. This revolutionary technology uses a combination of pulsations and soft air flow to create a gentle pulling sensation that imitates the amazing motions of your partner's tongue gently caressing your sensitive clitoris into the heights of ecstasy. They can also mimic the feeling of your lover's mouth on your nipples.

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As if that weren't enough many have fun features like escalating intensity levels, bunny ears for added tingles or an attached vibrator to involve your G-spot in the action. They are perfect for solo play or in combination with a partner so you can perfectly design your climax.

Ignoring Your Biggest Erogenous Zone-Your Brain

Oxytocin, commonly dubbed the "feel good" or "love" hormone, is your orgasm's partner in crime. If your body isn't producing enough of it, climaxing can be more difficult. Stress or anxiety can be a major hindrance in oxytocin production. It can also cause intrusive thoughts that may make it difficult to get into the headspace to reach climax. Whether your brain is preoccupied with all the aspects of your daily life, worried you'll fail at climaxing, or focused on the next big project at work all that mental trapeze work is a guaranteed way to orgasm-block yourself.

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